Can you remember the privalidge of being told a friends secret when you were a kid. It felt like you had been told something magical and that you must be super special to have been told.
But then there’s the other side. If you were on the outside, if you hadn’t been told the big secret. Which was usually something so small and silly. There are many reasons for keeping secrets. Some good and exciting others not so good.
Some times things are kept a secret not because you don’t want others to know. However silly that sounds. But because you are trying to deal with it and process it yourself. Sometimes it’s all most like you have to be selfish, keeping something to yourself to deal with it in your own way. Rather than letting others know, allowing them to have their input. Some times your own thoughts and feelings are enough to have to deal with without having other people’s opinions, thoughts and feelings to deal with as well.